Same happened with me developing a crush on my boss. When you fight it you make it a thing, I’m finding it better to not deny the attraction but more intentionally notice other parts of her and our dynamic to train my mind to focus on those things. Also reminding myself each time I day dream that that relationship isn’t possible so think of something else. I’m almost a month into the process, results are promising
Ahh, I feel you. Focus on stuff like: hell yeah she worked this section and everything is zoned properly. Use this thought to plop on top of the baser thoughts. Crush them.
Same happened with me developing a crush on my boss. When you fight it you make it a thing, I’m finding it better to not deny the attraction but more intentionally notice other parts of her and our dynamic to train my mind to focus on those things. Also reminding myself each time I day dream that that relationship isn’t possible so think of something else. I’m almost a month into the process, results are promising
Ahh, I feel you. Focus on stuff like: hell yeah she worked this section and everything is zoned properly. Use this thought to plop on top of the baser thoughts. Crush them.