I feel like this explains a lot of my struggles on personal relationships. Not all of it, but for sure a lot.

  • 3laws@lemmy.worldOP
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    1 year ago

    don’t notice that we’ve made the perspective switch when we do?

    Precisely.

    whatever we think we’ve used as a sufficient cue

    I don’t even do that. I just straight up switch to back stage. I noticed it can be really annoying and sometimes upsetting but I always thought it was because of the other party engagement skills. Ofc I’m the one with a bizarre skill. Lmao.

    • CapitalismsRefugee@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Right, I honestly couldn’t define any cue really that I use. Maybe a change in my voice? But yeah, I often use it and the person I speak to often stares long and asks what.