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Cake day: 2 July 2023

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  • If I can offer more unsolicited advice, get on your local kink group’s discord and maybe go to some munches. They tend to be trans positive, organized, and accept pretty much all misfits. They will have a wider audience/gossip pipeline. I have seen some trans backlash and fascist politics in the community but it’s kept quiet and usually pushed away, just be aware it does exist and it’s okay to be suspicious.

    If you have the means:

    Have a cash supply and all your documents in case you have to run. Consider purchasing and learning to use a handgun if your mental state and living situation allow. Plan where you would run ahead of time and maybe take a day trip. We’re gambling that the Northeast will be okay. If you have to run, you won’t be alone.



  • As someone that was lucky enough to move out of one of those states, I sympathize. I think a lot of things will need to be word of mouth and open secrets like in the bad old days with diy abortions.

    Scary times. Unsolicited advice, if you’re not already tied into your local alternative community, it is critical you do so now. Gay bars, BDSM community/munches, queer youth organizations, etc. Those venues may have to close or go deep under. Need to have preexisting relationships so you get a heads up on enforcement as well as access to underground help.