Either through memes or comments I keep seeing this sentiment pop-up from time to time. And I’m wondering what your (yes, you) consensus is on it.
I for one am too pessimistic to do anything with potential hints. Like even if there is a good chance I still just don’t want to risk it.
Well first of all there’s no such individual as “men” so it’s impossible to generalize. Some can and some can’t. I think it’s however safe to assume that on average we’re not that great at it.
In my own case I think I’m quite good at reading the underlaying emotions of especially my girlfriend but then again I know her really well anyway. However this goes a bit against my suspicion about my autism because you’d think I had more trouble with that. Then there’s also the fact that I’m tall and somewhat handsome if I may say so myself so I haven’t really experienced the situation of a woman not wanting to talk with me but I can see when they don’t want to talk with someone else.