“Being confident” is dangerously close to straight up bothering people. Plus it only really works if you’re good looking.

  • I’m going to say the same thing I say every time someone claims “this only works if you’re good looking”.

    Danny Devito gets laid. He got laid before he married. He got laid before he broke out as a star in Taxi. There are very, very, very, very few people who would look at Danny Devito and say “Wow, that guy’s good-looking!”

    Confidence is very much a necessary trait in the dating scene, and it makes up for a whole lot of other negatives (often, sadly, to the detriment of those who fall under its spell).