I think it also depends a lot on visiting versus living there. I’m also Canadian and the US is generally great to visit. There’s some states I don’t trust anymore nor want to give my money anyway, but the progressive states are great and for a large part, American culture doesn’t really feel all that different from Canadian culture, especially as a non resident.

They are considerably higher crime, though, and the way they approach guns just makes me extremely uncomfortable. I’ve never seen places like convenience stores be as locked down in any Canadian city I’ve been to compared to many American cities I’ve been to. I had a long distance relationship with someone who lived in Atlanta and wow does Atlanta feel unsafe compared to really any Canadian city (and I lived in Saskatoon for years, which is one of the highest crime Canadian cities).

But as a resident? Ehhhh. I’d never want to live in the US, even though the opportunity has come up and I’d make so much more money if I did. Their politics can largely be ignored as a visitor, but as a resident, they’d actually matter a lot more. And their health care system is batshit crazy. Canadian health care has a lot of problems, but I wouldn’t wish the American system on my worst enemy.