• Spzi
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    9 months ago

    I guess most see it as a bad thing. As waste, or resignation. But here’s the good story!

    It can be a fruitful inner dialogue. While writing the comment, you engage with the topic, which changes your mind. That’s a healthy and good thing! If in the end, your result is “I’d rather not post that, because …”, then this reason is the insight you gained by writing that comment.

    Sometimes I realize flaws in my reasoning this way. And I’m happy to catch them! Imagine if it was not asynchronous written conversation, but real time face to face.

    Of course there are many reasons to delete a draft. If it’s mostly insecurity, I’d encourage people to give it a try. Experiences are what bring you forward, and if it’s only to learn what not to repeat in the future.

    I almost deleted the last paragraph.