I understand a fantasy and a one time thing like tipping on a guys night out at a strip club, but some of these guys think they are in a relationship with someone they will never meet and don’t even know their real name or life details.

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    I’ve thought about it. It’s tempting because it’s simple. When you spend time and energy on your wife and she doesn’t give anything back, it’s very lonely. A cam girl is simple. Money goes in, attention comes out. It’s not exactly what I want but it’s got a higher success rate that what I’ve got now.

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        Can’t afford it. I can’t afford the aftermath, keep my kids, and keep my sanity. I’ve thought about it.

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          Thank god I dont have kids, and my wife isnt a bloodsucker. We tentatively agreed in principle to a divorce yesterday, and one of the first things she said was “Do we need lawyers or can we just sign the divorce application and be done with it?”

          I hope that its over soon, quickly and cheaply. We are both so tired.

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            I knew a couple who did that. They had a mutual friend lawyer represent them both, lol. It was smooth to say the least.

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          Fair enough. Wish you the best of luck. You seem to have a good heart. You deserve better.

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      I wish you strength, and hope you’ll find a good solution. Maybe it would be worth a thought of spending the money for couples therapy.

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      Hey can we spend some time together?

      Get death glare

      Fine, go back to your 9 hour streaming marathon. Sorry to bother you.