@KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com

You’re not banned here*, get in and explain why Yandere Simulator isn’t pedophilic. Don’t DM me like a coward.

*yet

  • KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 year ago

    Again, link my pedo apologizing. How the hell am I supposed to “defend myself” when the accusation doesn’t even point to something to defend.

    All I did in that thread was *checks notes* describe what the word Yandre meant.

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      I’m gonna give you all at least one hour to pile onto this persnickety rapscallion, folks. Maybe less, but I’m feeling generous tonight—I’m feeling generous. Don’t say I don’t give you nice things! a-little-trolling

      • KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Have fun I guess.

        I never even talked about the game beyond “I’ve never heard of it before” and “the description someone else posted sounds terrible, but not sexual.”

        If that’s enough to be branded a pedo apologizer here, not sure I give much of a fuck about the ban anymore.

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              Yandre isn’t inherently sexual. It’s more like “crazy stalker” or “crazy because of love/infatuation.”

              Think of the “crazy stalker girl” trope.

              Could it be sexual? Yes. Just like fishnets or knee high socks can be sexual.

              Is it sexual in this case? No idea, this is the first I’ve heard of this game.

              I have no idea what Im talking about anyway here’s the definition of ephebophilia yandere

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              I would say defending to me encompasses doubling down on a game you’ve never heard of until now being non-sexual because you feel compelled to repackage a stalker fetish as non-fetishistic edgeworth-shrug

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                  Then… just say that, take the L, acknowledge you can’t speak for it and move on, instead of continuing to fervently hold the line past that madeline-deadpan

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                    I literally did.

                    The funny thing to all of this is, I’m being attacked for something I didn’t do, because a mod decided to put me on blast.

                    Most of these commenters haven’t looked at my messages. Those that did, realize I wasn’t defending anything in my comments.

                    And as to why I didn’t move on? Maybe because I was called a pedo apologist, told I deserved to die, then blocked from further interaction.

        • DoiDoi [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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          “The young girl torture simulator doesn’t sound sexual to me”

          Christ buddy what do you estimate to be the primary motivation of playing the young girl torture simulator? Who do you think is playing this game?

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      Dawg I don’t do anime shit and have never heard of that game, but like you I had just read that the premise of said game is terrorizing (like literally torturing) high school girls. See, that’s when I make the easy as fuck choice to not step in and reflexively defend the pedo game. The fact that you did is weird as shit.

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          You said it sounded “non-sexual” when it’s obviously pedo fetish shit. The developer is literally a groomer. That’s what the thread was about.

    • Doubledee [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      I mean looking at your comments you’re technically correct I guess. What was the purpose of coming to the defense of “yandre” though? The guy and his game seem to be disgost if everyone else in the thread is to be believed, I’m not sure what defending him accomplishes.

      • KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        What was the purpose of coming to the defense of “yandre” though?

        Because I’m an adhd idiot that can’t help but info dump.

        I’m not sure what defending him accomplishes

        You literally just agreed I didn’t.

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          I have ADHD as well and also know about the yandere subculture and also know not to reflexively jump in to clarify the nuances of the fetish of the man being accused of pedophilia. If I did do that and people called me out on it, I would simply back down and say “I know nothing about the game, so I don’t want to comment further here.” Not to minimize your experiences; sounds like a skill issue though mari-smug

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          So you just incidentally defended “yandre” in this context because you really like informing people that “yandre” isn’t always sexual? You’re just a normal non- sexual yandre enjoyer who accidentally stumbled into a conversation about a weird pedo game and felt the need to clarify that this um… genre… is not necessarily sexual by default.

          Sure I guess. Can you see why in the context of the thread it could be interpreted as a knee jerk defense of the yucky thing being discussed?

        • DoiDoi [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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          You know, if a lot of people are suddenly piling on you in unison to say that you made a fuck up, you’re actually allowed to just say “yeah my bad I’ll do better in the future” and no one will continue to make fun of you. This thread is popping right now because with every comment you make that isn’t “my bad” your position gets significantly funnier.