I get the sense that many people (including me) would answer “frequency” or maybe it’s “variety”. What is it for you? How could your needs be better satisfied?
It would be really cool to give people suggestions too, if you have any good ideas to help.
Honestly? Both. Though mainly variety. It isn’t entirely her fault, as certain aspect about her limit her ability to do certain things, but still. She’s also very hetero, so she’s unwilling to even entertain the thought of including anyone else, regardless of sex or gender.
I just feel like more open mindedness on her part would help, as I pride myself on fulfilling whatever sexual fantasy and request she has. She’s just unwilling to do the same for me.