dont delete your comment. it’s okay to think stuff that’s wrong or misguided.
do consider this: it’s the 1970s in america, a woman walks by a construction site and is subjected to catcalls and misogynistic language. why is this bad?
same time, same place, a man coding gay walks by and is subjected to homophobia and slurs. why is this bad?
now fast forward to now, a person makes a username asking to see nude fat nonbinary people. why is this bad?
It sucks to lose comments! If you can tolerate leaving weird comments up in the future, it’s good to. The site stores comments and posts in the same database but on different sides. There can be a lot of comments versus posts because comments weigh less, but we have so many posts on hexbear that it’s getting unsustainable and if we lose too many more, the posts will be heavy enough to tip the server over and the site will go down.
a person makes a username asking to see nude fat nonbinary people
I didn’t say nude. Nudity is actually a huge turnoff to me because of the genitals. In binary terms, I’m asexual and genital repulsed. My gender has its own version of sex, but the label “asexual” is useful when we’re talking about my participation in binary society and specifically about nudity of human beings.
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dont delete your comment. it’s okay to think stuff that’s wrong or misguided.
do consider this: it’s the 1970s in america, a woman walks by a construction site and is subjected to catcalls and misogynistic language. why is this bad?
same time, same place, a man coding gay walks by and is subjected to homophobia and slurs. why is this bad?
now fast forward to now, a person makes a username asking to see nude fat nonbinary people. why is this bad?
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I’m sorry you felt the need to delete them.
It sucks to lose comments! If you can tolerate leaving weird comments up in the future, it’s good to. The site stores comments and posts in the same database but on different sides. There can be a lot of comments versus posts because comments weigh less, but we have so many posts on hexbear that it’s getting unsustainable and if we lose too many more, the posts will be heavy enough to tip the server over and the site will go down.
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Thank you, that means a lot.
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I didn’t say nude. Nudity is actually a huge turnoff to me because of the genitals. In binary terms, I’m asexual and genital repulsed. My gender has its own version of sex, but the label “asexual” is useful when we’re talking about my participation in binary society and specifically about nudity of human beings.