autismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year agoFound the different modes for different waiting times thing incredibly relatable.hexbear.netimagemessage-square18fedilinkarrow-up1110arrow-down13file-text
arrow-up1107arrow-down1imageFound the different modes for different waiting times thing incredibly relatable.hexbear.netautismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to neurodiverse@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year agomessage-square18fedilinkfile-text
Like even within long term waiting there are huge differences with what I do depending on exactly how much time I have.
minus-squareStrayce@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up12·1 year agoI’ve found more people tend to be chill if you explain it like; “I don’t mind, I just need to know. Because I have other things I can do if it’s going to be a while.”
minus-squareautismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up12·1 year agoIve had people even get mad at that but i guess those people were just dicks.
minus-squareusernamesaredifficul [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·1 year agoyeah that’s just unreasonable it’s a common question people are busy and you might have places to be
minus-squareinvalidusernamelol [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 year agoJust asking ETA on everything is normal, especially if it’s like a service that you’re getting. If someone says “gimme a minute” assume they mean 10 then ask ETA after that.
I’ve found more people tend to be chill if you explain it like; “I don’t mind, I just need to know. Because I have other things I can do if it’s going to be a while.”
Ive had people even get mad at that but i guess those people were just dicks.
yeah that’s just unreasonable it’s a common question people are busy and you might have places to be
Just asking ETA on everything is normal, especially if it’s like a service that you’re getting.
If someone says “gimme a minute” assume they mean 10 then ask ETA after that.