After spending a few days learning about lemmy and other fediverse websites, I was curious about people’s processes for picking a server that is right for them. I’ve seen most posts say to pick one that is not too big or small and that has similar interests as yourself. But if we are all mostly federated, doesn’t it make the most sense to join the biggest or likeliest server to stay around and federated with the most other servers? Then you can just travel to the instances you share interests in. I chose this instance because you could just sign up and be in it, and that was all I needed to check things out. And although I found many communities in other instances, even if let’s say all of my subscribed communities are on other instances, doesn’t it make sense to just stay here so long as they are federated with sh.itjust.works? It may be too early to know for sure, but it seems like this instance is going to stick around for the foreseeable future, why risk joining the smaller instances that might not be here for long. Also, if you have subscribed communities in several instances, I assume you have to follow all the different server’s rules. I’d be curious to hear other people’s thoughts in regards to picking a home instance.

Edit: Are there any restrictions to interacting with communities on other instances?

  • Wigglehard@exploding-heads.comEnglish
    717·
    1 year ago

    Basically you go with your gut feeling but as for me, i would choose an instance that wont ban your account because you accidentally offended someone and then poof you lose all your posts, this is why I recommend exploding heads, although lemmy world is pretty good too in my opinion, but i would definitely say without a doubt that you have to say the absolutely most crazy heinous things ever to be banned from Exploding heads

    • Guncle@sh.itjust.worksOPEnglish
      6·
      1 year ago

      I’m not too worried about getting banned. I plan to be a rather “average” person throughout the fediverse. I was a lurker for about 10 years on reddit, but I do want to be a more active contributor here. I’m going to try to respect each server’s rules as best as I can and just avoid the ones I don’t agree with.