• Lord_ToRA@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Being so insecure about whether or not you’re perceived as feminine/gay is hella gay. As in, super closeted and desperately trying to deny the truth by any means kind of gay.

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      8 months ago

      I’m dating another man. I don’t know any gay guys who worry about this.

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        8 months ago

        Does insecurity so crippling it stops you from cleaning up after yourself when camping seem well aligned with the stereotypical ultra-masculine archetype to you?

        Of course it’s ultimately all nonsense and stereotypes - but that’s really the point - this arbitrary “that’s gay… and that’s a problem” nonsense just draws lines people fear to cross and limits their freedom for no benefit.

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        8 months ago

        Shhhh, we’re trying to convince these guys that it’s less gay to save the environment!