• silent_water [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        10 months ago

        As an Englishman I know well the history. I’ve also known a hell of a lot of Indian people to know they are people of great character, intellect and culture.

        is this a bit or do you actually not realize how this comes off? the colonized don’t need or want compliments from the colonizers. they want back what was stolen from them.

              • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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                10 months ago

                As an Englishman I know well the history

                Please sahib, explain the customs of these exotic people of the Orient of which you are an expert. Regale us with tales of your service with the British Raj among the unenlightened Hindoos

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                no I contributed my own relevant experience to the conversation. You say that Indians often casually call people sir. I have grown up in an area with a high proportion of Indian immigrants and known and worked with many both raised in the UK and recent immigrants and have not known them to call people sir. My point being is that it is clearly a more complicated cultural thing than you were saying

                Tell you what next time I’m talking to an Indian I’ll ask about it as they should have a better idea of their own culture than we have

      • Dolores [love/loves]@hexbear.net
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        10 months ago

        In the past

        you say that like sir doesn’t carry the same meaning in non-colonial bourgeois contexts. sir is for children and servants to address their ‘betters’, it’s politeness in that the people involved conform to the behavior expected of their social positions