My paternal grandfather was great to me, was always funny and had things like candy and toys for my sister and I (he also died when I was relatively young)
But he also served in Vietnam, went into intelligence/espionage for the US for a decade or so post war, was captured in Central America with 2 other Americans for things he never spoke about during that time (probably part of a kill team or something, he was an incredibly good marksman)
It’s always easier to disavow relatives and acquaintances when they’re tremendous assholes to you or yours, rather then them just being tremendous assholes to peoples and countries you’ve never seen in service of the Amerikkkan empire
Some people just never get there
My paternal grandfather was great to me, was always funny and had things like candy and toys for my sister and I (he also died when I was relatively young)
But he also served in Vietnam, went into intelligence/espionage for the US for a decade or so post war, was captured in Central America with 2 other Americans for things he never spoke about during that time (probably part of a kill team or something, he was an incredibly good marksman)
It’s always easier to disavow relatives and acquaintances when they’re tremendous assholes to you or yours, rather then them just being tremendous assholes to peoples and countries you’ve never seen in service of the Amerikkkan empire