guess which one i don’t have!
I am terrible with names to begin with so I just call everyone “dude”, regardless of gender. That includes my wife, father, etc.
ok i’m not going to remove this but i need you to understand why people in the transgender comm might not be pleased with this attitude
At what point are you going through the energy to be deliberately offended when there’s obviously no ill intent?
Personally I think “motherfucker” should be how we refer to everyone by default
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Agreed. I imagine it can be dysphoria inducing for trans women, even if it is more gender neutral in your area.
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You’ve got like ten people answering you kindly and you decided to just double down, eh ?
See you back when you’ve done some thinking
i don’t want to be too defensive of them but they did do that before most of the responses came in if you look at the timestamps
True enough, I didn’t notice that.
Alright buddy
Kinda cringe. I love “dude” and say it a lot because of brainworms, but I am pretty careful with referring to people by it. It has both a potentially unpleasant sound AND is gendered.
yeah, there’s one transfem friend i have who calls me dude and i call her dude and that’s just like a thing we do, but if someone else does it it really raises my hackles even if i don’t always tell them
Getting called “dude” by a random and just looking at them real shitty-like instead of saying anything.
Probably best for both of ya
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No thank you
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Sounds reasonable, dude
Thanks dude
I don’t use pronouns any more. Everyone is they/them
Trying to find a suitable name during my transition was like “Hi! Don’t mind all the glitter and sparkles, I’m totally not a faerie…but can I have your name?”
I have 4, kinda-sorta 5. I honestly love this, cis people don’t know what they’re missing, being tied to one name their whole lives
Oh no, I may be cis but I’m a gamer. I may login to a new name and identity in a heartbeat
No but seriously, you always go by your ign in voip, whether it was xx_bussyslayer_xx or Mordogai
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Sub a party name for a business name and no one will know the difference.
Just 6? You’ve gotta get those numbers up. I’ve got 6 of those too and I’m not even trans. (PS you all know me by #7)
they forgot video game name
my video game name is the same as one of my other names(and it’s not the online name)
I guess you don’t have business name
What if you’ve used several dozen online names?
I have another name which is the name my mom was going to give me if I was born female, apparently the doctors didn’t find out my genitalia until I left my mom’s body.