• Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    That’s not how the real world works and I encourage you to step away from Tumblr or whatever the kids are using these days. I transitioned in the mid 00’s and this virtue signalling of “YOU MUST DATE TRANS PEOPLE OR UR TRANSPHOBIC!!” is a very recent trend that has no bearing on reality, and in fact only divides us further. Just let people date who they want to date.

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      1 year ago

      You’re misunderstanding the issue. It’s not that I want incel chuds to date me. It’s that they’re lying when they say they’re not attracted to me. They’re lying about their sexual preferences to try and create a social stigma out of thin air. They’re trying to write into reality through magical thinking a false dogma that trans people are ugly, so that they can bully us. I don’t want to date them, they’re not good enough for me. And I know a man trying to talk himself into changing his sexuality when I see it. Nobody’s super straight naturally, it’s something you have to force yourself into.