I have, mostly, always been top. I am told I am good to my partners and I am sure to get them off before I am done (with few explainable exceptions}. I am also told I am a bit large of junk for some of them and I can get a little aggressive during sex. I am always worried that I could be doing better, I feel like there are some expectations of a bottom that tops can’t understand. Does anyone have anything they always wanted a top to know but never told him?
Sometimes sex with new people is better than with old reliables specifically because I’m unable to try to get into the heads of new people. Catastrophe is right.
If I yell “fuck me” and “keep doing that” and “I get off when you’re losing yourself, so keep going, buddy”, you down to bang me sometime?