• doylio@lemmy.ca
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    9 months ago

    Sounds like an avoidant attachment style. Learning about this changed my dating life so much for the better!

    • Arxir@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      Rather Disorganized attachment style. Sounds like he has a desire for closeness, is prone to regrets and shows behavior symptomatic of both anxious and avoidant attachment style

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    9 months ago

    For men it’s the most effective way to spread your genes, a very strong evolutionary driver of behavior.

    They call it the seven year itch, but it’s more like the four year itch, statistically. Stick around long enough to get children to a point where they’re somewhat self sufficient, then look for another chance to mate.