Here is a list of most to least effective ways to argue:

  1. Facts and evidence: Presenting facts and evidence to support your argument is the most effective way to argue. This shows that you have done your research and have a strong understanding of the topic[6].

  2. Logic and reasoning: Using logical arguments and reasoning to support your position is also very effective. This involves presenting a clear and logical chain of reasoning to support your position[4].

  3. Active listening: Listening carefully to the other person’s perspective and responding thoughtfully can help you build a stronger argument. This shows that you are willing to engage in a dialogue and consider other viewpoints[2].

  4. Empathy: Showing empathy towards the other person’s perspective can help you build a stronger connection and find common ground. This involves putting yourself in the other person’s shoes and understanding their point of view[2].

  5. Humor: Using humor can help defuse a tense situation and make it easier to find common ground. This involves using wit and humor to lighten the mood and make the other person more receptive to your argument[5].

  6. Insults: Insults are the least effective way to argue. They do not contain rationality or argument, but rather slam the door on understanding and end any possibility of dialogue[6]. Using insults can also make you appear immature and lacking in self-control[6].

Citations: [1] https://thoughtcatalog.com/january-nelson/2021/01/best-insults/ [2] https://tinybuddha.com/blog/dealing-with-verbal-attacks-6-ways-to-take-the-sting-out-of-an-insult/ [3] https://lifehacker.com/how-to-insult-your-enemies-more-effectively-1839501124 [4] https://time.com/5318965/how-to-win-an-argument/ [5] https://mindsetopia.com/savage-comebacks-when-someone-insults-you/ [6] https://psychology-spot.com/insulting-a-person-types-of-insults/