• ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 months ago

    Not a fan of body shaming to be honest. Boobs doesn’t mean there can’t be brains.

    Sorry for being all serious here but if you’re interested I can really recommend this video from someone who goes out of her way to be “highly feminine” and her reasons for doing so. Was an eye opener for me. And I’ve never thought she was a “bimbo”, she’s very intelligent. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9vW_MpXTfs

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      8 months ago

      I am a big fan of Naomi Wu, so I appreciate your sharing this. Of course it’s absolutely correct that we should not body shame or make assumptions about someone’s intelligence based on their plastic surgeries.

      However, please understand that “bimbo” is not necessarily intended as a slur in this context, and can instead be considered a kink term. In recent decades, bimbo kink has become a pretty big phenomenon, and has a lot of overlap with the fetishization of extreme, obviously fake enhancements. Many glamor models, porn stars, escorts, and social media influencers now openly embrace the term and self-identify as bimbos (at least in their public personas, though at least some are genuinely into the kink too, or into it as some kind of subculture).

      Here is Naomi Wu on IG mentioning bimbo kink and defending self-proclaimed bimbos from social media censorship:

      https://www.instagram.com/p/BzkdPn0HIKL/

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        8 months ago

        If you don’t want to follow that link, or are not able to, here is the photo and caption:

        Having lunch and showing solidarity with all my lewd sisters online who have gotten deplatformed, defunded and censored this year, even though titties never hurt anyone.

        Best part of shirts like this is looking bewildered and pretending not to speak English when foreigners frantically try to explain to me what my shirt says😜

        Shirt by @beabimbo no, it’s not my kink but my ultra-high-femme🌈 aesthetic is a little similar, they are very nice ladies, and we all have to stick together to fight hateful prudes👭😊 (and yes Bim-bros I absolutely support your right to wear a mini-kilt and ride the escalator so don’t start with “Then I should get to wear…” because yes you should😁)

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        8 months ago

        Oh yes of course when a person describes themselves as a bimbo it’s totally ok to follow on. But I personally don’t like to be the one that starts because that’s where it can get hurtful and unconsensually disrespectful really quickly. Not everyone with big boobs is into that particular kink. In some areas like some Latin American coastal regions it’s just “the done thing” and very mainstream, as far as I’ve been told.

        I personally love being a slut too (and I’m a guy, lol). I love being walked on a leash in a private club and be used by a mistress and her friends as they see fit ❤️ so I surely know what you mean. I love making a show of it too. 😈☺️

        But the problem is that it’s very easy to be taken the wrong way too by someone who isn’t into that particular kink so I’ll only ever follow their lead on it. In BDSM there’s a very fine line between pleasure and hurt and we’re always very conscious of this so maybe I’m a bit overly sensitive there.

        And yeah I so miss Naomi Wu’s material since she got arrested and disciplined. I still keep checking regularly to see if she’s slowly coming back but no luck so far 😭

        And no I don’t know of her opinion on this but I’m not surprised because she’s so awesome 🥰

        And thank you for this comment!! And for posting the Instagram comment verbatim, you’re very considerate.