…I’m here and registered in Blahaj instance but I’m not even remotely close to being queer? I’m a white straight guy getting married to a woman next week (can I get some honey for that) but I’m in full support of decent human beings. My fiance was asking why I signed up with the gay server, and it’s because you guys are just nice and relaxed community. Also, our celebrant is a lesbian, but most importantly, my best friend and that’s what matters, right?

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    1 year ago

    Hahah my fiance always worries that I’m gay because I’m pretty flamboyant. Not to worry, I’m not gonna steal any boys from the community 🤣

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      that might be why you like to hang around gay people; if you presentation is “gay-ish,” it’s a type of fitting-in to be with people who commonly act like you, or at least don’t raise an eyebrow at it. i’m glad you found a comfortable crowd to run in