• aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    1 month ago

    Are you really not seeing the issue? This could easily be interpreted as “I don’t find you physically attractive”, even if it wasn’t intended. Who in the world wants to hear that from their partner? It also could easily be interpreted as negging. Are people not allowed to feel aggrieved by that?

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      No, I am not seeing that cause she didn’t say it nor imply it lmao so I don’t see how you are? “Easily interpreted” is wild.

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        If someone said to you “you’re not someone I’d like to hook up with”, would that be more of a compliment or an insult to you?