Was out with my partner of over a decade and a load of her friends, she and some others started talking about exes (gymbros specifically) and my partner brought up one of hers that was a runway model that she didn’t like because he was dull and only wanted to be at the gym. I was off having a different conversation as I got called over by one of her friends to get ‘congratulated’ on being chosen over that thanks to having a better personality. Didn’t really feel like a compliment to me, but I think it was supposed to be.