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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/mercurysnowman on 2023-08-12 18:15:20.

i have cut off people from my life for this very reason before. yes. people. plural.

i guess I can be a pushover sometimes but I have limits and if someone tries to push them I can enforce the boundaries I’ve set real fucking quick and i don’t back down.

but this has happened too many times. somebody asks for something/asks me to do something, instead of giving an excuse I explain why I can’t/won’t and they keep trying to convince me to do the said thing.

i don’t get it, how does somebody have the audacity to ask for a favor and then get upset when you say you can’t.

sometimes I think it’s maybe cause I’m 5"3 and skinny or something (not intimidating enough) but i don’t think that’s it.