• TheFriar
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    3 hours ago

    The true key is…counterintuitive as this sounds, not looking.

    Try enjoying yourself, meeting people, doing things you like. People can sense desperation or dishonesty in you when you’re feigning interest or trying to get in their pants. Just…be a decent person, and you can find people who you get along with. It happens more naturally that way and you’re more likely to find…yknow, people you like and who like you.

    • Rolando@lemmy.world
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      53 minutes ago

      And plus, once you do have a relationship, it’ll be a lot stronger because you won’t desperately need to be in that relationship at any costs.