Recently I’ve been coming more to terms with the fact that I want to transition hormonally but as a fat person as well as someone who doesn’t really want to dress super feminine it feels kinda impossible.
I know I’m not alone in this feeling but I just felt like venting a bit and wishing there was some more visibility for fat trans people y’know?
Hey OP, i don’t want to give too many details a out myself irl on this website but as far as the contradiction between wanting to transition and not wanting to be feminine, i ended up settling for a butch look, and i have never once regretted transitioning. i don’t want to be forced into performing femininity when i don’t want to— and it took me a while to come to terms with the fact that i can feel that way about femininity while also wanting to be a woman.
be you. being trans is all about being the you that you want to be, in spite of what society tries to force you to do. much love, OP