- How long in total years have you been in chastity (caged or uncaged, and could be with multiple Doms/Dommes)
- If you are currently in chastity - How long have you been in current active relationship?
- If you are currently not in chasity - How long has it been since you have been “free”? To be clear - intent of this question is not a solicitation by me or to circumvent Rule 6 at sidebar.
Disclosure: This post is obviously a very blatant SHAMELESS attempt 😜 by me to jumpstart this community and generate some activity/discussion (after 2 months of no activity since comm’s existence)
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I’ve been doing chastity play for about 12 years now.
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I’m currently at almost a year without a full orgasm. Several ruined, but my Dom is really good at controlling me and not letting me cum fully ever. His birthday is coming up and I’m hoping he’ll feel generous.
Wow! I bow to you and your Dom. Holy moly for being able to maintain that long 🥴
I’m curious about how you are managing this long-term denial. Frankly, I would go crazy after a month without a release. Do you feel more devoted to your Dom and wanting to please him more because of this?
It’s a love hate thing lol. I love edging and stuff. But I love how submissive and devoted I do feel to him at this point. I’ll do just about anything he asks in hopes that I’ll get to cum eventually.
I’m in awe of the special bond you have created with your Dom. I hope you don’t mind my asking questions like this as we progress. I’m so glad you are here to impart your experiences and knowledge to future relationships (I know someone who’s very interested about chastity and submission is reading and listening here… 😉)
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- 9 years
- 5 years 1 month
I am by no means in the chastity community or have the kink but this came on my front page and I wanted to say I appreciate someone trying to jumpstart a community they’re interested in. Nothing to be ashamed of at all (unless you’re into that, in which case, you bad bad boy)
Since I’m here, I guess I’ll answer.
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0 years
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N/A, but 3 years
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Umm 24 years?
Love your answer! Never say never 😉
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Thanks for trying to jumpstart this community!
My wife and I have played with chastity a bit, but never really been serious about it. I’m more into it than she is, frankly. But I’ll answer the questions as well as I can…
- On and off for maybe the last 10 or so years
- Not currently in chastity, but recently ended a 100-day stint
- It’s been a couple months
Thanks for replying. And please keep that desire going - it can be a very fun and rewarding dynamic.
Our experience is a bit similar to yours - I used this blog/site as a starting guide when I approached my wife -https://www.malechastityjournal.com/caging-your-man/
I have been doing this, on and off, for 12 years now, still in the same relationship. Still I get excited when starting again after longer pause.
Welcome to LemmyNSFW and community 😊.
12 years is a real long time - congrats 😉
I’ve only started about a month or so ago. No active relationship. Doing this of my own accord to masturbate less and make what orgasms I do allow myself to have better.
Welcome to community - and a new fun world ahead of you as you explore and gain more experience. Please feel free to ask questions - start new discussions, etc.
Great posts you’ve done so far 👍. I’m curious if you’ve also discovered ruined orgasms (self-ones included) - pls check out !ruinedorgasms@lemmynsfw.com if interested.
I’ve tried ruining before but never followed through. Hopefully chastity will give me the discipline to finally do it.
Just do it! 😀 You’ll be motivated once you discover that you’ll stay hard after your ruined orgasm, and be able to continue your fapping, etc… for a couple more rounds…
Answering my own poll - It’s slightly over a year for me with my Mistress (for questions 1 and 2) - switched after being on the Dom side for a long time. a bit of reference - https://lemmynsfw.com/post/1632876
