we’re so back. anyways as you can tell by the other pinned post, we’ve been a little busy with a lot of stuff on the backend and that’s probably going to continue into the foreseeable future

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    10 months ago

    New depressive episode after being almost functioning 👍

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        10 months ago

        And have other people potentially see my physical form? No thank you 😤

        (U right tho i really should get out of my smelly cave 🫠)

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          10 months ago

          Do you mean that you’re obese? I’ve actually met someone today that I really like who is obese, and I’ve had a ONS with someone who was obese. Don’t sell yourself short!

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            10 months ago

            Doesnt change the fact that im still really fucking ugly but thank u kind stranger 🥰

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              10 months ago

              You know a lot of guys feel insecure about balding but I’ve always liked it. Same with gray hair. I also have a friend who is into people who are very skinny or are missing limbs. Weird I know but I am just saying you never know what other people look for. And at the end of the day its not your looks people fall for.

              And I am not even talking about friendship here, which is arguably better for many people, or simply strangers.

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                  10 months ago

                  You know this might sound made up but I’ve never met a confident woman except for that woman from the ONS. That’s what I fell for. She had been bullied so badly, at some point she just decided to start validating herself. It’s so rare.

                  And how is any of this related to friendship? Those are arguably better any way.