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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • Stopped biting my nails after about 35 years of tearing them to the quick. It wasn’t my first attempt, but when I successfully stopped, it was cold turkey. It’s been over four years now. I buy a new nail tool periodically to keep them looking good. I’m proud of them despite how trivial. The novelty of tapping on things and peeling stickers hasn’t worn off.






  • You make excellent points (and frankly, I really like the way you write,) but I disagree with how you portray the risk. I’m not saying they’re completely safe, they aren’t, but you can mitigate much of the risk through proper storage and handling. Your experience has obviously shown you that doesn’t always occur. As you point out, it’s easier to pick up the slack for someone else with the foods I listed, whereas with oysters, not so much. They have strict guidelines and in many places much more stringent regulations than other foods, which again, could go unfollowed somewhere along the way and then you’re screwed. That’s fair. I see your main point and I agree, not everyone gives the level of care they should.

    This is largely irrelevant since we’re discussing a commercial situation, but I like to pamper mine. I have the luxury of being about to take the time and attention to do that without the pressure of a commercial kitchen. I always get farmed oysters that are typically purged before shipped. I won’t let them sit in water in the ice pan. They all get eaten almost immediately. Those red worms are unappetizing, but they’re harmless. When I get pea crabs though- anyone there who doesn’t already know about them is getting an ecology lesson. I leave them in. I really enjoy shucking and sharing oysters with others. Maybe that’s why I jumped in to defend them. Handled properly and done right, they are a transportive experience. I know you know as a chef how special that can be when food does that to us.












  • Not to downplay the point of the article, but I personally know many people who needed GoFundMe for housing due to the hurricane that hit Western North Carolina. One of my best friends has one while also already having one for his cancer treatment because his insurance wouldn’t cover it. He’s been a teacher for 27 years, but I guess this treatment was too experimental (read: too high of a success rate.)

    If you know anyone in WNC, don’t forget about them. We’re not okay. My wife and I saw an 85% nosedive in income during our busiest and most important time of the year. I’m grateful to have heat, walls and a roof, but I’m so so scared for winter. I’m just working as much as possible to keep us alive as we sink deeper debt. We have food assistance thanks to a wonderful nonprofit that we’ve always volunteered at and donated to every chance we can. We are also wealthier than many people, wealthier than most billionaires, because we have something money can’t buy: genuine, authentic relationships. We have deep friendships. We’re suffering and we need therapy, but we have shoulders to lean on. Nothing can replace that.