This above was in reference to the course of a long weekend when our daughter typically doesn’t have homework and we went on a long and very fun trip together. Prior to that, my ex-wife had her an entire week. During that time she could have worked with her to get anything she needed to have done, during her time. I’m sure by now my ex-wife is putting on a good story to her family, friends and attorney, telling them she doesn’t have narcissistic tendencies and that I’m the one that is an alcoholic and mentally unstable. I can tell you it takes a very strong person to deal with this type of behavior without snapping. Fortunately, I have a high threshold for pain, both physically 😉 and mentally, as I’m sure some of her family already know.

This above behavior is explained very nicely in this article: Covert-Aggression and the Gaslighting Effect:

https://www.drgeorgesimon.com/covert-aggression-and-the-gaslighting-effect

Mom’s latest:

Wilma still has homework and sounds like she is not anywhere near home. Before agreeing to taking her to places knowing you need to get her home, needing to get your car serviced for long distances, please have discussions with her about whether she has completed her homework so that you can plan responsibly and accordingly so she gets home at a decent hour so she is rested for school. She has math homework due tomorrow and 2 study guides due on Wednesday. Last time she didn’t get the study books done because you distracted her and she wanted to come home when you were drunk.

Please plan better.

After the hearing, my ex-wife sends me 6 emails. This is how she lashes out when she is angry. She swamps me with insulting emails thinking they will have an affect after justice was finally served. I’m $5k in the hole in attorney fees for this little stunt, but I’m on cloud-9 after the ruling in my favor. Her lashing out is called narcissistic rage.

Yeah. I had an alcoholic Mom, that managed to beat it. My Mother was a wonderful Mom and she was very supportive of me and a wonderful person to everyone she knew. My ex-wife doesn’t drink, but if anyone should, it is her. She’s real classy, bringing up the past about my deceased Mother. She’ll probably try and flip the script on this one, like the fact she can’t pay her mortgage. My former-alcoholic deceased Mom always had a saying for fools that made claims like this. It’s called crying with a loaf of bread under arm.

Pathetic.

I dunno. I got the call for Beijing headquarters. I can’t make heads or tails of it.

One more song:

What would you do if I sang out of tune? Would you stand up and walk out on me? Lend me your ears and I’ll sing you a song, And I’ll try not to sing out of key.

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends. Mmm, I get high with a little help from my friends. Mmm, gonna try with a little help from my friends.

What do I do when my love is away? Does it worry you to be alone? How do I feel by the end of the day? Are you sad because you’re on your own?

No, I get by with a little help from my friends. Mmm, I get high with a little help from my friends. Mmm, gonna try with a little help from my friends.

Do you need anybody? I need somebody to love. Could it be anybody? I want somebody to love.

Would you believe in a love at first sight? Yes, I’m certain that it happens all the time. What do you see when you turn out the light? I can’t tell you, but I know it’s mine.

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends. Mmm, I get high with a little help from my friends. Oh, I’m gonna try with a little help from my friends.

Do you need anybody? I just need someone to love. Could it be anybody? I want somebody to love.

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends. Mmm, I’m gonna try with a little help from my friends. Oh, I get high with a little help from my friends.

Yes, I get by with a little help from my friends, With a little help from my friends. Ah.

I hope they do it soon. I mean, free Netflix is pretty cool but the darn Roku box has been a Trojan horse all along, and it’s not worth it to keep it around anymore. I may junk the box tomorrow. I’ve let her keep tabs on me for far too long, but its about time she considers hanging up her back knives. She dragged me back in to see me suffer after I was progressing fairly well with a recovery from another bad relationship I was in. She shouldn’t keep pulling at the bandage. And she shouldn’t be taking advantage of other’s mental health as well. The last two years of bad luck are fading out pretty quickly again. I’m happy once more!

Yep. Trying to bait the ex-wife. Looks like she took it hook line and sinker. She’s nuttier than a bowl of granola.

A dance of ideas, her thoughts do disperse, In a nutty ballet, both a blessing and curse.

🤑