Yeah, probably too large of a tube. When your soft, it should basically be hugging your girth with maybe a few mm of space at the front to touching the tip of your penis. Sometimes you shrink a little compared to average, so its OK to see a bit of space, but that shouldn’t be the normal case.

I run my own CA for internal SSL (think like homeassistant, nextcloud, so on)… Some of these apps dont respect the user CA store, so I have to load my internal CA cert into the system cert store.

I also use it for app backups, as well as spoofing google play services (I run stock lineageOS and added my own microG instead of using something like “microG for lineageos” which has it all pre bundled)

Ad blocking is another reason to do it… But I just use firefox, which can do adblocking at a user space level… And like 90% of my apps are foss, which dont have ads, so I dont personally use it for that

So… People are saying apple tv, but if you hate ads, and also watch YouTube, then this is not the way. If you go with something androidTV based, you can side load smarttube plus, which not only will block ads without YouTube premium, but it also has sponsor block built in, which will skip sponsored sections in videos.

I use a nvidia shield since it supports the widest range of direct play standards (h265, Dolby atmos, hdr10 / Dolby vision, support for refresh rate and output resolution switching, so on)

There’s tons of other androidTV based boxes to go with, but thats what my research ~3 years ago brought me to get, and ive been pretty happy with them. The only con is that it doesn’t like Ethernet cables that dont have a metal shielding on the rj45 connector. Not sure why, but yeah

this was a prank done by someone trying to expose how easy news companies will pick up stories with no research or fact checking. they later did a youtube video that explained that. I have no experience with the cellmate, but yeah - kinda sad that it (probably) hurt their sales

its hard… cause leading up to it, its a VERY sexy thought… but then when you cum, its a little bit painful and pretty unfulfilling. the problem is that the cage stops your dick from getting big, but theres still increased blood flow, so things are pretty tight inside the cage. when you go to cum, it will come out, but theres a lot of resistance, so it feels like your struggling to actually cum. regardless, if your into femdom, its something to work into the bedroom play… just worth your gf knowing what it will feel like so they can factor in if thats what they want for you

So, i have a few ideas… But it depends on how much planning you want to put into this, or how extreme you are OK going with kink stuff.

Starting off easy, she could tie you spread eagle and ride you until you cum in her, then she can slide up to your face right after. As someone else mentioned, a ruined orgasm will leave you a bit hornet still. Even without a ruined orgasm, you will still have a few seconds while cunning where its still hot. Try to get her to get some cum on her finger and suck it off as fast as you can. It might keep the idea more bearable… But hey, your tied down. If you already agreed to it… She can ride your face til she’s done using you.

If you are OK with some pre planning, you could cum into an ice cube tray, and then use the frozen cum as the source of cum for your next session. IMO, thats a bit too much for me and my partner, but if your both really into the concept of cum play, this would be a way to experiment some without loosing interest in it since you are forced to eat the cum before you finish (maybe have to warm it up in your mouth, and can’t swallow it til you lick her to orgasm)

Last, is similar to the first scenereo, but using pain for compliance. She could either spanknyour balls til you give in and eat it… Or something like an estim setup, as that would allow pain to be inflicted from any position (she don’t have to be in striking distance of your balls)

tl;dr: avoid silicone, cheap metal is probably fine, plastic is hit or miss, but can be sanded if there’s rough spots.

So, started off with a silicone cb-6000s knock off. It was fine but would chafe like crazy. Couldn’t wear it for more than a few hours without adding some kind of oil.

After that, I got some silicone cage with these hard plastic rings that would snap in, and had a ball seperator. I forget what it was called, I think some people from HT or birdlocked tried making it. It sucked, it would break, and they stopped selling em.

After that disappointment, I bought a legit holy trainer, I believe a v3… Ir was still using the burg watcher me/2 style lock. Anyway, that cage was fine, but it was too solid, which made it hard to keep clean. Over all, it was fine, but there was a plastic seam down the middle. It was fine at first, but after a few days it would become uncomfortable. I fixed it with some sanding, but it changed the look of the cage, and I would expect it to be vibratory tumbled from the factory to remove the seam / for the price.

After all that, I tried a cheap metal cage from amazon and loved it.After finding one that fit me well, I took measurements and got a kink3d cage (a slightly more narrow cobra s) which is what I normally wear. The bars on the metal one were a bit too open, so there was a bit more feeling making it through. The kink3d one has the right balance of cleanability and isolation. Its also 3d printed so there’s no seam line.

Comparing the kink3d to the metal one, both are good, and better than all the other ones. The metal one would very rarely pinch when putting it on, but otherwise was slightly more comfortable on my skin (only very slightly though). The main reason I like the cobra more, is that its lighter.

For both the metal one and the cobra, I would put a bit of oil on to lubricate it when putting it on. I might need to add a small dot more of oil once a day with the cobra, and maybe once every day and a half to two days with the metal one.

For oil, I just use refined coconut oil (if it smells like coconut, its not refined and will go rancid with your body heat). Depending on the temperature it is, I will add a few drops of jojoba oil to the coconut oil. This lowers the melting point, allowing me to get the coconut oil to be at an easy to squeeze out paste like consistency, which I keep in a small squeeze bottle.

Hope that helps!

very hot! me and my partner bought a new cage recently that is about the same size as my normal one, but its just a sounding rod connected to the ring by a bar that goes over the top of your dick. Since you mentioned looking for a sound for the flat cage, i thought I would mention that style too.

The idea we wanted the sounding cage for, was that my normal day to day cage is VERY good about stopping almost all sensation… but what if she wants full access to tease me without letting me get harder than what the cage allows? well, the sounding rod cage basically has zero skin coverage other than the small bar, so im fully exposed but still locked up

The sound is a bit thicker than we thought, so still working on that… but yeah, if you want more control over his erections… well now you can choose a partial errection :)

I created !not_so_gentle_femdom@lemmynsfw.com and !femdom_community@lemmynsfw.com on here, so feel free to add that in.

My 1 question, is how do you want to differentiate “community” subreddits from “fap material” subreddits? Ideally, I think they should be categorized too, but denoted in the list that they aren’t intended for porn. Another example of this might be the old sextoys subreddit where people asked questions about toys.

I feel that having its own top level category would be less organized than having it in line. Maybe doing something like:

3.1 - femdom
  3.1.0c - femdom_community
  3.1.1   - gentle_femdom
  3.1.2   - not_so_gentle_femdom

Where the c indicates a community style board (well, community, but the terms a bit overloaded in this context)