it’s overly online gay slang for ageing basically. quite dumb

love have you checked the link? attraction to fat hairy men is a cornerstone of queer culture and history.

also when i said that comparing queer attraction to pedophilia is bad i wasn’t saying the attraction was bad (it is, don’t get me wrong), i was saying the comparison itself is bad.

if you have somehow managed to avoid the last half decade of politics– in which case tell me who your geosomnologist is cos i want some of that– the global right-wing has been calling LGBT folks groomers for a while now. so if you make such a comparison yourself not only are you signaling to us that you’re one of them, you’re also signaling it to them too.
i hope i don’t need to explain why that’s bad

a. eye of the beholder
b. beauty is not a default state of being*, it requires effort. How much effort of entirely up to you, if you like yourself with makeup (and yes this does go for men too) then use makeup, if you don’t then don’t bother. do you think you’d like longer hair? shorter? colored?
And if you think you’re so uniquely ugly as to be utterly sure that nothing you can do will make you happy you may want to interrogate those feelings, there’s probably more going on under the surface there.

* this does not mean that someone who is unwilling or unable to put that effort in is “ugly”. this is about your perception of yourself. your perception of other is irrelevant unless asked for

i’m going to be charitable and assume that you just don’t know better so here, but you should be aware that equating queer attraction to child molestation is uh. Not Good, actually.

well yea it’s haunted thats where your soul is

thanks!

if you’ve got 3 balls you should probably go to the doctor

They’re the balls that I like best
My balls are always bouncing
To the left and to the right
It’s my belief that my big balls
Should be held every night (oh)

the last panel sounds like “so much for the tolerant left”

they work as a waiter they have mastered the art of keeping their bloodlust down

made this goobe’s fur today

ye sorry but i ain’t installing an entirely different distro, that seems kinda extreme

i’ll see if my motherboard has any similar options

is there any way i can upgrade without having to reinstall from scratch?

i’m on 550.107.02, the ubuntu-drivers command shows there are two 550 drivers one with -open after it, is that what you’re talking about?

journalctl doesn’t seem to report any GPU specific errors. nvtop shows no oddities that i could find.

i found that dragging the preview image on the fps showcase videos in nvidea’s 4060 page makes firefox lag out with a glib-CRITICAL logged to the console. it says

(firefox:4349): GLib-CRITICAL **: 12:40:07.460: g_strv_length: assertion 'str_array != NULL' failed
[Parent 4349, Main Thread] WARNING: g_strv_length: assertion 'str_array != NULL' failed: 'glib warning', file /builds/worker/checkouts/gecko/toolkit/xre/nsSigHandlers.cpp:187

dunno if that has to do with anything tho

doubt it’s the same problem i’m having because the lag spikes only affect blender, the rest of the DE works fine

i just use the YouTube site on firefox with adblock and sponsorblock. slightly janky but works

not a perfect solution but better than nothing, i’ll keep it in mind