you could try having people refer to you with she/her pronouns and descriptions
Honestly this hit me like a ton of bricks. Just last night I laid in bed going “he him she her he him she her” trying to figure out what I vibed with and felt like I was getting nowhere. But reading this and realizing that I can ask other people to refer to me with she/her had my hear beating fast and tears welling up and I felt super giddy.
I think you’re right. I think I might not have negative male thoughts, but positive female thoughts.
I have a safe and anonymous discord server I’m in and yeah I think I’m going to try experimenting. Wish me luck
That’s also good to know. Because I definitely haven’t “always known.” Not even in the slightest. So it’s confusing when I try to look up info and every blog post written by a trans person has a story where they always kinda knew.