Thinkbubble: “She’s probably just being nice” Drawing of two people with long hair and boobs kissing one laying on the other. The thinking dots connect to both.

  • meep_launcher
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    2 months ago

    Gonna say as someone who has had sex so as not to hurt the other person’s feelings and then felt like shit right after, and then became paranoid other relationships are doing the same thing- this hits hard.

      • Gustephan@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        You ever start replying to disagree with a comment and then realize the things you’ve normalized in your romantic past are a bit fucked up? That’s where I’m at right now

        I’ve had sex plenty of times I didn’t really want to in the past. It goes like

        She’s horny and wants to fuck. I am not

        If I say no it’s a self esteem meltdown

        If I say yes it’s a bit of a workout that ends in cuddling, which I always want

        It’s just always felt better for my life to be an on demand dick machine than somebody who can say no