• cheers_queers
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    5 hours ago

    you are under no obligation to tell them where you’re going/have been.

    • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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      4 hours ago

      Whenever I start disagreeing with an officer or telling them I don’t have to answer any questions … the response is usually that I have an attitude and that they don’t like my behavior.

      It’s subtle intimidation because they know that if I stand up for myself long and hard enough … they’ll detain/ arrest or use force, ask questions after and justify their actions later.

      It’s easier to walk a fine line between complying and trying not to upset a bully with a gun.

      • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        3 hours ago

        This is the way. In my experience it’s been better to act like their friend while still being mindful of what information you’re giving (strictly talking about traffic stops). But for sure if they seem to suspect you of a crime it becomes STFU Friday. It also helps to keep your hands on the wheel and be white.