Curious to hear what others think, as this definitely aligns with my own experiences.

Full text of the original study is behind a paywall. If anyone can provide a link to the full study, it would be greatly appreciated.

  • Gerudo
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    5 hours ago

    I’m moving and had a hard date of about 2 weeks to have the house ready for real estate pictures/showings etc. I was so worried I’d drown in the list of things to do, but just poured every ounce of myself into getting it ready. I didn’t have time to panic or freak out, just head first. When I was done, I was so fried I broke down and just cried.

    I have had a few days to recover and I found myself cleaning, doing dishes immediately after cooking, picking up after myself, you know, normal things for a lot of people. I don’t know how long it will last, but for now, my symptoms are better than they have been for a long time. I hate deadline stress, but it forces me to get shit done.

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      I hope you’re doing alright now. I know moving can be extremely stressful, and hopefully your recovery time is enjoyable.

      I remember once in college that I had a big paper to write, and I decided that I was going to get started on it “early” so that I could finish it early and avoid the deadline stress. I legitimately started it early, but somehow still managed to finish it at the very last minute. I spent my entire weekend in the library, and I don’t think the final product was significantly better than if I had procrastinated on starting. I just spent a lot more time on the research part of it, and didn’t really start putting anything together until the deadline stress kicked in.

      Since that experience, I find it even more difficult to convince myself to start things early, since I’m afraid it will just mean spending more time on stressful tasks.