Going with some friends for the first time tomorrow and want to wear a pretty over-the-top outfit but am worried about negative attention. Does anyone have some advice?

  • juliebean
    8·
    1 year ago

    i suppose it might vary place to place, but i’ve always had a lovely time at the northern california one, and there’s always been plenty of other visibly trans people as well. you should absolutely do it.

      • juliebean
        1·
        1 year ago

        i wish. it used to be held in a proper forest back when i was a kid, but now it’s held considerably further south in the hot, dry realm of Hollister. It’s still a lot of fun, but i wouldn’t wear one of the big over the top nobility outfits there unless i got it suped up with a liquid cooling system like the queen has.