Hello, Im trying to monitor & control my dns in my network. I like the idea & features of nextdns but all your traffic goes trough them right? I wanna host something simular. I currently have pi-hole installed but i feel like its not as advanced as something like nextdns. What service could i use for this? Thanks for your time!
You might check out blocky or coredns. Both of those allow for DoT and domain blacklisting (blocky can do blacklisting via regex as well).
If you are wanting even more control, you might check out pfSense/Opensense and the SSL inspection and squidproxy options those have.