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    They should have the right to choose to do what they want.

    Wait you are telling me that, at the age of 7 you were ready to make decisions that affect your entire life? If sitting at a desk for 10 years and learning basic life skills for free is abuse and gave you PTSD… As you said… Just how would you feel sitting at a gas station for 40 years, inhaling carcinogen fumes, and living at a very basic level as a result of the decisions you made as a young child? You basically had a bad experience, and I understand. I hated school as well. It’s actually why I became a teacher. I don’t want to be an abusive dick like my teachers were. But what you are saying is that a young child, who has no basic life skills, should just be able to leave school because it sucks. But the repercussions are that the rest of their life might suck and they’re not gonna blame themselves. They’re going to blame circumstances. In all honesty, aquiring an education is a privilege, and it is a recent development in society that we universally get a basic education. If it seemed like a horrible experience, well it’s behind you. All I am saying is you should have a bit of gratitude for the education you received. If not that, gratitude for the education your mother received, so that she could teach you to read. You seem very intelligent, but you’d not be able to use your intelligence if you didn’t have basic literacy… And consider if your mother, herself, was illiterate and couldn’t teach you. Wouldn’t school be such a gift?

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      Wait you are telling me that, at the age of 7 you were ready to make decisions that affect your entire life?

      I think anyone at any age should be able to enroll in basic education. I think the basics of what is taught in schools and truly necessary could be taught to most people in under 4 years.

      gave you PTSD

      I didn’t say PTSD.

      learning basic life skills

      That is a tiny fraction of what public education is.

      Just how would you feel sitting at a gas station for 40 years

      You mean getting paid and providing a service of value? I’d much prefer it.

      You basically had a bad experience

      I personally would’ve been much better off not engaging in schooling at all. Everything that has been useful to me I either was taught by my parents, or the internet, or easily could have been in the 13 years I wasted in school.

      But what you are saying is that a young child, who has no basic life skills, should just be able to leave school because it sucks.

      Yes.

      But the repercussions are that the rest of their life might suck and they’re not gonna blame themselves.

      You don’t know. It is easy to point out harms to changing the current system while overlooking the harms in the current system and the missed opportunities. Maybe they would more aptly teach themselves- as I did. Or, maybe they would learn from an apprenticeship. Or, maybe they wanted to be a hair stylist, they learn to be a hair stylist, they become a hair stylist- and they are happy. A lot of the advocacy for mandatory education comes from projecting what you want, or what might be best for you, onto others- imo.

      aquiring an education is a privilege

      It is a privilege if it is voluntary, its an obligation if its forced.

      If it seemed like a horrible experience, well it’s behind you.

      But it still harms millions of others.

      If not that, gratitude for the education your mother received, so that she could teach you to read.

      My parents were also taught to read by their parents.

      All I am saying is you should have a bit of gratitude for the education you received.

      The only thing of any value I gained throughout schooling was the diploma.

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        I think the basics of what is taught in schools and truly necessary could be taught to most people in under 4 years.

        Okay. If you have a kid, pull them out of school at 4th grade. They are ready for the world in your eyes.

        13 years I wasted in school.

        That’s your own fault. Drop out and get your GED at 16.

        You mean getting paid and providing a service of value? I’d much prefer it.

        Cool. Go to work. Nobody stopping you.

        You want to change the system? You need more education. Substantiate your assertions that kids should drop out at 4th grade and go to work with quantitative research after you get your masters or PHD in early education pedagogy. Otherwise you’re just blowing hot air about the way the world ‘should be’

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          Okay. If you have a kid, pull them out of school at 4th grade. They are ready for the world in your eyes.

          Most people includes adults who would learn it more easily. But I’d say yeah for the top 20% or so of students they’d learn more with free choice. They’d obviously still be minors so still have protections. But, I think an easier way to determine it than age is just letting people test out.

          That’s your own fault. Drop out and get your GED at 16.

          Illegal in the state I lived in, you had to be 18 to be out of any form of schooling. Furthermore at around that point COVID had started and online school largely amounted to nothing. And again furthermore, 2/13 isn’t that good of a recovery rate.

          Cool. Go to work. Nobody stopping you.

          I did work starting when I was 14, I would’ve been able to devote more and learn more from it if I weren’t in school.

          You need more education.

          You can learn outside of formal education. That is the only way I am able to learn anecdotally.

          You want to change the system?

          Many have already tried see John Taylor Gatto, one of the most decorated public school teachers ever. Or, Ivan Illich, who was more of a idealogue but still proposed good alternatives, some of which have partially been created. Or John Holt, or in some ways Caleb Gattegno. Bertrand Stern, and many more. And, I’m probably not the one best suited to take any of their places, but I can still advocate for change.

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            It sounds like you are passionate about education reform. It’d be a shame if your passion went to waste. I strongly disagree with the dismantling of public education and replacing it with charter schools. The idea is mostly advanced by people with ulterior motives. You, from what you said, truly suffer from traditional education. I get that. As I said, I hated school also. I learn in a very nontraditional way as well. But, public education is for everyone. It’s not simply a work training facility. Many of my students love school. Quite a few depend on school for daily nutrition. These are a few, among many services provided by our public school system.

            Neither of us are going to be able to make fundamental changes. But I am personally providing my students with the best education that I can. Maybe your mom, not your tracher taught you to read. But I’ve personally taught dozens of illiterate kids to read. Not only how to read, but to understand why they read and to even love doing it.

            People learn. It’s what we do. I feel like I am just a facilitator in their independent education.

            Actually, you’d probably be a great teacher yourself. You understand what a lot of teachers don’t.

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        I think anyone at any age should be able to enroll in basic education. I think the basics of what is taught in schools and truly necessary could be taught to most people in under 4 years.

        So… You think Kindergarten through 4th Grade is all that’s necessary in life?

        I don’t know how to tell you this but… if you only got an education up to 4th grade you wouldn’t have the necessary communication skills to write that comment. You also probably wouldn’t have the necessary math skills to pay your bills or understand how interest works (so forget banking) which means you wouldn’t have a cell phone or Internet plan.