Mostly making this bc I felt my comment below didn’t deserve its own post as such.

    • Tommasi [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      7 months ago

      I feel pretty much the same way, it’s daunting and I feel pretty clueless. Maybe I’ll find out I look super silly, but I kind of have to just start trying somewhere, so it is what it is.

      I got a couple loose knit sweaters in sort of soft, light colours. So not feminine enough to be scary for me to wear, but more “flowy” and less structured than men’s clothing typically is. I usually use gender neutral shoes any way, plus I have a few skinny jeans which can already be kind of androgynous.

    • bubbalu [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      7 months ago

      Very high waisted jeans are flattering on most people and give a more femme silhouette. Most of men’s clothing ends up giving you like 50:50 torso:legs. It can also be fun to have a shirt tucked into high pants with a longer coat.