Tyrion also leaves her alone, despite constant pressure from literally everyone around him to do otherwise. And then she’s just in a series of unrealized bethrothals.

Anyway, this doesn’t detract from your overall point: she suffers horribly for whatever relatively minor sins she’s really guilty of, and yet people hate her far more than is justified, and well past the point at which she’s genuinely not the same person she was at the start of the series.