CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 6 months agoWhat's the most embarrassing thing about you?message-squaremessage-square64fedilinkarrow-up156arrow-down14
arrow-up152arrow-down1message-squareWhat's the most embarrassing thing about you?CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 6 months agomessage-square64fedilink
minus-squareBonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·6 months ago“Why don’t you just leave?” I don’t know, because I don’t have any fucking money or help or anywhere to go, and he’d torture me to the ends of the earth if I did?
minus-square____@infosec.publinkfedilinkarrow-up1·6 months agoThat’s a bullshit question, and distance can help with the stalking. M here, carefully manipulated by an F abuser, so I understand at least some of it. Not your lived exp of course, but no one is immune. The only women who should be hit are the women who actively consent to it, and the language surrounding it.
“Why don’t you just leave?”
I don’t know, because I don’t have any fucking money or help or anywhere to go, and he’d torture me to the ends of the earth if I did?
That’s a bullshit question, and distance can help with the stalking.
M here, carefully manipulated by an F abuser, so I understand at least some of it. Not your lived exp of course, but no one is immune.
The only women who should be hit are the women who actively consent to it, and the language surrounding it.