Description: white text on black background. “Remember – the only thing standing between you and your dreams is your appearance, lack of talent, and general personality”

  • Pissnpink@feddit.uk
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    6 months ago

    And student debt, and lack of access to affordable health care, and affordable housing, and affordable childcare, and quality public transportation

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        6 months ago

        No lies detected, although I’d assume lack of those doesn’t make not sucking any easier.

    • hydroptic@sopuli.xyzOP
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      6 months ago

      Oh yes, musn’t forget the mental health disorders. Certainly haven’t done me any favors

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        6 months ago

        me when I forget I have depression because the depression ate my memory

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      6 months ago

      I’d almost call mine an absolute disdain for anything needing effort unless it’s something I happen to wanna be doing at that moment.

  • Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 months ago

    No, I’ve got all that in spades the real problem is that I was raised abusively in a way that actively discouraged agency which severely exacerbated my predisposition towards executive disfunction.

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    5 months ago

    OOC:

    Ya know, take a moment to look around. Think about yourself a year ago, 5 years ago, 10 years ago. What were your biggest problems then? What are your biggest problems now?

    My hope is that you have better problems now than you did back then. I also hope you are doing some things now that you only dreamed of back then. I hope you had the courage and opportunity to make the moves you used to be terrified of.

    The thing with success, is that it’s not the top of some mountain. It’s this elusive thing that keeps you dreaming for more and more, because you don’t just stop dreaming if you “attain” success.

    “When you take a moment to accept things as they are, you don’t need to hope anymore because you realize where you are is kind of okay.”

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      5 months ago

      I never had dreams or goals or motivation or ambition or drive or any desire to be productive. It’s society constantly telling me that I should want to get off my sofa that makes me anxious. I love my sofa and i can sit here all day so i guess i’m a success.