• booty [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    You don’t see why I find it unreasonable and dishonest to compare the use of the term “housebreaking” to refer to training a dog to not shit in the house (beneficial to the dog, detrimental to no one) to the use of the term “breaking” to refer to abusing a horse into allowing you to ride it (detrimental to the horse, beneficial to you)

    Not only is the term different, because in housebreaking a dog you are “breaking” the behavior and not the animal, but the act itself is so dissimilar that there is no reason to compare them except as a dishonest way of defending animal abuse

    i can appreciate animal cruelty can make someone angry but your reply was disproportionate and unpleasant.

    My reply was proportionate to your defense of animal abuse which is far more unpleasant than any insults I could ever come up with to throw at you (all of which would be deserved)

    Finally, yes I dispensed with the semantic arguments in my previous reply because it doesn’t fucking matter. The semantics are not the point. I didn’t want to get into the weeds about this. The point is that if you defend or attempt to normalize the abuse of horses then you fucking suck.

    Also you call the “moral implications” of my comments “unstated” and honestly I don’t see how you could possibly be commenting in good faith if you think that. Re-read my comments. My top level comment in this thread explicitly calls out horse riders as animal abusers and mocks them for justifying it. If you think I left the moral argument “unstated” and that this conversation has always been about the fucking semantics it’s only because you are in denial and want the conversation to be about semantics.

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      housebreaking

      breaking

      this comparison is dishonest? it’s the same fucking word. don’t play ‘word games’ unless it’s me pretending slapping a noun on a verb completely removes all context and meaning from it

      yes I dispensed with the semantic arguments

      if only you actually had

      in housebreaking a dog you are “breaking” the behavior and not the animal

      defend this. where is it written that when people say ‘housebreak’ for dogs they are very specifically talking about behavior but ‘break’ a horse is totally not related to the behavior of bucking riders and in fact, exclusive to the subjugation of the natural character of the horse. is shitting inside not a natural behavior of dogs?

      the act itself is so dissimilar that there is no reason to compare them

      ah yeah, people never coerce or use violence on dogs to train them. utterly unheard of

      training a dog to not shit in the house (beneficial to the dog, detrimental to no one)

      defend this. what benefit does a dog get from not being allowed to shit where it pleases

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        Shitting inside is not the natural behavior of a dog but there is a difference between holding a poop in until you go outside and carrying a person on your back. If someone isn’t bringing their dog out to poop and forcing them to hold it in to an uncomfortable point it’s comparable to riding horses. I don’t see how the situation benefits the dog here, but it is dog-neutral as long as you aren’t being specifically negligent or abusive. The act of riding the horse is abuse in itself. So one is teaching a behavior that is for your convenience but doesn’t harm the animal and the other harms the animal. I’m sure there are etyomolgical similarities between breaking a horse and housebreaking a pet but housebreaking has turned into a more colloquial term distinct from ‘breaking’ a horse. Words being the same doesn’t really mean much when the context of their use is clearly different. A well seasoned solider isn’t one who’s covered in cumin and tarragon and a well seasoned meal hadn’t fought many battles.

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          A well seasoned solider isn’t one who’s covered in cumin and tarragon and a well seasoned meal hadn’t fought many battles

          this is the core of a fantastic joke with a lil set up

          So one is teaching a behavior that is for your convenience but doesn’t harm the animal and the other harms the animal

          this is where the trouble is. from a human perspective i recognize a distinct similarity, but i am not veterinarian enough to make a judgement on how true that is from a biological standpoint. does the weight of people/cargo on an equine make it so? is pulling a wagon as damaging as putting things on their back? how often are these activities done, does that matter?

          i don’t expect you to answer those, i just have a bit of skepticism around this from studying people with very fundamental relationships with horses on the steppe. it’s hard to imagine that horses have had a place below and less care than other animals in societies that prised them so much, y’know?

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            I’m gonna be workshopping this seasoned soldier joke for a while. I feel like maybe we could tie it in with Biden’s fabulisms about his uncle being eaten by cannibals

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            Care is irrelevant here, riding horses is really bad for them, same with making them pull stuff. Plain and simple. For riding, it’s a lot of weight constantly on their spine and for hauling carts and stuff, that’s physical labor a horse was never meant to do. I was gonna say we don’t industrialized dogs, but we do and did even more in the past but the majority of dogs that people have now are mostly just there to be pals, that evolution never happened when cars replaced horses, we stopped needing dogs as useful hunting and gathering pals but we still enjoyed their company where it seems any attachment to a horse is based mostly around the riding of it. And like, I raised huskies and have had them lead a sled and had the youngest one we raised learn to haul me around on a skateboard when we moved into town, so I’m not totally innocent here, but well and this is my personal observation here, the huskies really really wanted to do it and the horses I’ve seen have seemed less enthusiastic

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              for hauling carts and stuff, that’s physical labor a horse was never meant to do

              this is super fascinating because what about those draught horses, which brings in the whole can of worms about selective breeding. but they can definitely handle pulling modern day shit (but were bred for a lot of heavier, more dangerous tasks in the 19th century)

              we still enjoyed their company where it seems any attachment to a horse is based mostly around the riding of it

              i wonder if ‘early’ relationships with dogs were viewed the same way. is there space for pet-like conditions for horses? and like dogs would that be accompanied with some labor uses (herding dogs, watch dogs) while most of them were just companions? i think donkeys are a total shoo-in for pets but horses are awful big

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                Yes, most dogs were generally kept for their labor use and smaller lap dog types were generally bred by royalty as a status symbol. And generally speaking your working dogs are in a bit of a symbiotic relationship, dogs sorta followed people eating leftovers and also had the benefit for people of having packs of dogs watching their backs and keeping other scary stuff more nervous and that turned from a mutually beneficial relationship to us using dogs as tools and companions at the same time. However as utility shrank the angle of companionship stayed and became.e more important and thar was also to the detriment of dogs, look at pugs etc. Also this is starting to cross into the territory of I think we also have historically mistreated dogs, there are differences in how and I fo think dogs and people are more set up to coexist than horses and humans because of how the relationship developed, there is a pretty old symbiosis with dogs and people, horses were pure animal exploitation.

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                  horses were pure animal exploitation

                  dogs are a bit older than other domestic animals but i hesitate to put too much meaning in dates that can vary 1,000 years in a period where the biggest advancements are in ways to put stone-headed sticks into things. i’m a firm believer in animal agriculture being after plant agriculture ofc but that hypothesis does imply some symbiosis with the progenitors of domestic species, so it’s hard to say how different that is.

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                    Dogs were domesticated prior to agriculture and there’s evidence of that. You maybe just don’t know shit about anthropology and when and how different animals were domesticated.

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          I don’t see how the situation benefits the dog here,

          Seriously? You don’t think that it is detrimental to any animal to live in its own shit? I expected “show me some scientific evidence that it is good for a dog not to have to live in a pile of its own feces” from the dishonest animal abuse supporting dipshits but I didn’t expect it from you

          I really thought that anyone arguing in good faith would take for granted that teaching a dog to go outside to poop is beneficial to the dog in the same way that it is beneficial to a child to teach it to poop in the toilet

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            I agree it does benefit the dog that way, but that is only because you’re also keeping a dog indoors more than it probably wants to for your own convenience which I figure kinda evens it out. I guess I also assumed the owner would clean up the indoor dog shit cause they would have to live with the same pile

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              Ah, I see where the disconnect was then. Obviously I have never seen dogs that weren’t trained to poop outside except in neglectful households where they were abused in various other ways at the same time. I very much associate refusing to train a dog to poop outside with neglect and carelessness and so the image in my head was of someone who just doesn’t pay attention to what the dog does at all (maybe the dog is locked in a seldom used room or it’s a hoarder house where some extra poop pretty much just goes unnoticed)

              I see what you’re getting at now, if you clean up the poop then yeah that’s more convenient for the dog, and the only upside then to training it to poop outside is for you and not the dog. You’re right.

              Also sorry for the tone of my previous comment, that was pretty cringe yikes-1

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                  You know, when I see a struggle session thread I just keep on scrolling because it’s never worth it. I don’t usually say controversial things at all because, again, not worth it. But this place is usually cool enough that I often forget that basic vegan criticisms of obvious animal abuse are considered controversial here and will instantly turn even the otherwise coolest users into your shitty uncle in his f150

                  It isn’t worth it

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                    Thanks for saying I’m cool, but like, same. We use the term Dehumanization for the most awful treatment of people and the word implicitly applies that treating non humans terribly is fine. Animal abuse is disturbingly ingrained in people and as long as we continue a mechanized genocide on animals for our own carnal pleasure we will never be good enough to have the control over the earth that we do.

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        defend this.

        refuse-the-question No.

        I’m done playing reddit debatebro with you. Fuck off. Stop defending animal abuse.

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            Genuine question, why does it so upset you that I don’t want to host a scored and moderated debate about this semantic point you refuse to let go of that I have said multiple times that I was never interested in? Every single time I tried to redirect the conversation to what actually mattered to me the entire time, you came back harder on the semantics. The one time I actually indulged you and got into the weeds about the semantics, you mocked me for doing so. Why the hell would I even consider this discussion with you after all of this behavior was considered together? It is on a topic I don’t care about, with a person who is defending something I find indefensible and disgusting, who is defending it in ways that are dishonest, and who has only been an asshole to me even when I engaged as you seemingly desired.

            In short, there are two wolves inside you. Both of them are redditors. Evict them. two-wolves-1 two-wolves-2

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              i am not upset you won’t engage in a moderated debate. you’ve insulted me repeatedly, even in this reply! this paternalistic attitude you’ve adopted ‘i know you ride horses (i physically cannot), you’re a redditor (ive been on here as long you)’ is absolutely incompatible to actually having a conversation with someone.

              i’m sure you wouldn’t respond well to someone insulting you, i mean i just have in response and you didn’t. so why would you expect that i would?

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                you’ve insulted me repeatedly, even in this reply!

                Don’t go to bat for animal abusers and I won’t insult you. The difference between me insulting you and you insulting me is that you deserve it.

                'i know you ride horses

                I never said that. I called you an animal abuser for defending horse riding regardless of whether you engage in it yourself. I don’t know you, I don’t care who you are or what you do. What I do care about is the shit you say because that is all that exists here. And what you are saying is in defense of animal abuse.

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                  I never said that

                  Leave the fucking animals alone. They are not built to carry your dumb ass around

                  that is exactly what you fucking said. you can’t cede a fucking millimetre and you’re calling me a reddit debatebro

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                    Right. They aren’t built to carry you around and you should leave them alone. I did say that. Where exactly did I claim that you personally ride horses? My comment was, in the first paragraph, addressed to “you animal-abusing fuckheads.” Plural. How exactly will you claim that I was referring to you and you alone?

                    I was speaking generally. They aren’t built to carry (your; general) dumb ass around. Anyone’s dumb ass. They aren’t built to carry people or things around. They are animals, and are best suited to carrying themselves and nothing else.

                    And even if I was speaking specifically to you I never actually accused you of having ridden any horse in your life. However, your defense of horse riding implies that you might in the future decide to do so, and I would like to reiterate again that you should not do that. Because that would be animal abuse.

                    Now I’ve had to write three paragraphs of wordy refutation of your dishonest claims, once again demonstrating why my first reaction to your reddit bullshit was to refuse to engage with it.

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                    ‘Your’ in this context refers to people in general and not you specifically. Or even if it’s about you it still doesn’t imply that you’ve ridden a horse it just says they weren’t put on earth to be ridden by you (and by implied extention anyone else)