• PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz
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    15 hours ago

    Well since the means of creating a Lemmy account has a barrier of entry, it can be argued that we may or may not be more intelligent compared to other social media users, but we are also definitely more prone to pursuing more extreme ideologies, like communism which may possibly give you a different view than a normal intelligent fellow would make in your scenario.

    Imo it’s fine for me if she does OF, but I would hope that this hobby is a side hustle for her and she also does a job in next of this, preferably a white collar job.

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      15 hours ago

      Do you believe her personality characteristics which lead her to do OF could impact her ability to be a good mother? Beside I mean the obvious downside of the availability of her explicit content all around internet could have for the involved kids.

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        Well, I haven’t really talked with actual OF girls, so bear that in mind but doing OF does not necessarily mean that certain person would likely have problematic personality traits. Maybe it could be argued that the chances of red flags will be higher with OF girls, but I don’t know tbh. Whether it’s an OF or a non-OF girl, her personality traits will be tested without exceptions. You really want to get to know your partner if you’re going to consider her for a possible marriage in the future.

        That sounds like a fair argument, her explicit videos could really hurt her children’s social status, if their peers will find out about this, although that shouldn’t be a make-or-break issue in of itself alone.