Taking advantage of kind people. By all means you don’t need to turn down kindness, even if you’re joking to make light of your need to ask for kindness that’s fine but if you take their kindness as expectation, it really hurts. My mother was always willing to help those in need and people would always use her like it was their right until she broke down. I’m currently trying to convince my senior to include me in more of his meetings because he seems to be in a similar position and I’m ready to help him say no