Huh? How did you arrive at that conclusion based on my reply? I explained how sexuality is a choice. What I mean by sexuality is anything that is not heterosexual. The default is that men are for women and women are for men. That is how human beings were created. Anything outside of this has to be evaluated and that person would need to seek help. Whether the person has to continue living with these desires or not, they are fully accountable if they act upon those desires.
Yes if someone chose to start endulging in homosexual activities because they were bored of straight sex or from watching too much porn, they did in fact choose to be gay.
No. Being gay isn’t about attraction. It is someone who engages in homosexual behavior. A straight person who has no desires for other men can be called gay if he engages in homosexual activities.
Huh? How did you arrive at that conclusion based on my reply? I explained how sexuality is a choice. What I mean by sexuality is anything that is not heterosexual. The default is that men are for women and women are for men. That is how human beings were created. Anything outside of this has to be evaluated and that person would need to seek help. Whether the person has to continue living with these desires or not, they are fully accountable if they act upon those desires.
No, you said it’s a choice, then said a bunch of stuff that wasn’t a person’s choice - just the way a person is.
You’re not understanding me. I’m saying that being heterosexual is something you are born with. Being homosexual, not so much.
Wut. Why is one sexuality something you’re born with, but not the other?
Are you saying you could choose to be gay? If you wanted to, right now, you could be a gay man?
Yes that is what I am saying.
Yes if someone chose to start endulging in homosexual activities because they were bored of straight sex or from watching too much porn, they did in fact choose to be gay.
So you are saying you find men attractive? You’re just not acting on your internal wants?
I’m saying a person who is straight can become gay if they so chose to. Whether they have internal desires or not.
You’re not describing a gay person then.
If a person isn’t attracted to the same sex, they aren’t gay - would you say that statement is true?
No. Being gay isn’t about attraction. It is someone who engages in homosexual behavior. A straight person who has no desires for other men can be called gay if he engages in homosexual activities.