• Platomus
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    Wut. Why is one sexuality something you’re born with, but not the other?

    Are you saying you could choose to be gay? If you wanted to, right now, you could be a gay man?

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      Yes that is what I am saying.

      Yes if someone chose to start endulging in homosexual activities because they were bored of straight sex or from watching too much porn, they did in fact choose to be gay.

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        So you are saying you find men attractive? You’re just not acting on your internal wants?

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            You’re not describing a gay person then.

            If a person isn’t attracted to the same sex, they aren’t gay - would you say that statement is true?

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              No. Being gay isn’t about attraction. It is someone who engages in homosexual behavior. A straight person who has no desires for other men can be called gay if he engages in homosexual activities.

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                So a person who is sexually attracted to the same sex isn’t gay?

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                  He also is. But if he never acts upon those desires, people will never know. It’s between him and God. The sin is not having those desires, but acting upon them.

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                    So then being gay is about attraction?

                    You’re saying contradicting stuff here.

                    You understand there is a difference between a gay man and the act of gay sex right? Not everything has to do with your religion.